The divorce process starts with the filing of a document entitled "Original Petition for Divorce." This may be 2 pages or 40 pages, depending on your circumstances and the relief you request. As a general rule, you are not required to sign the petition. Accordingly, if you want to review it before it is filed and delivered to your spouse, please let your lawyer know.
This petition is filed with the District Clerk, and your case is assigned to a Court. Each county has one or more courts handling family cases. In Dallas, there are seven Family Law District Courts. The filing of cases is random. Your lawyer cannot select the Court or the Judge.
After processing at the Courthouse, the Original Petition for Divorce must be delivered to your spouse. The most common means of delivery is by having a Sheriff, Constable, or private process server hand your spouse the petition and a Citation. Citation is essentially a cover sheet that tells your spouse a lawsuit has been filed, and there is a limited number of days in which a response must be made. In some instances, you may wish to deliver or mail the papers to your spouse. However, this cannot be done if you have requested a Temporary Restraining Order or a hearing. Additionally, if your spouse does not waive service or file an answer in Court, your delivery does not constitute effective service, and this would have to be accomplished before your case could proceed.
Temporary orders may also be needed to determine which spouse shall remain in the family home, payment of bills, conservatorship and support of the children, attorney's fees, and the filing of inventories, production of documents, and other matters.
If you have obtained a Temporary Restraining Order or requested a hearing for temporary orders, the Court will set a hearing within days of the date of filing. If an agreement is not reached with your spouse concerning temporary matters before the scheduled hearing, it will be necessary for you to appear in Court at that time and give testimony. Your lawyer will give you a form entitled "Financial Information Statement" for use at that hearing, and will explain to you what your court appearance may be like. A special judge called a "Master" will hear evidence and make the appropriate orders.