Family Law AdvisorŪ
Frequently Asked Questions
- Selecting a Lawyer -
1) How do I find a qualified divorce lawyer?
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If you know any non-divorce lawyers, ask them for a referral.
Also speak to friends and family who have been through it. Local bar
associations make referrals. Finally, look at various guides such as
Martindale and Hubbell in your local library.
2) What factors are most important?
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Reputation, experience, accessibility/responsiveness,
compatibility, style, negotiating skills, and fees.
3) Are these listed in order of importance?
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Sort of. Reputation is definitely the most important, especially
to judges. Judges more often believe lawyers with good reputations.
4) How important is experience.
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Very. Inexperienced lawyers cave in to pressure too easily or
take unrealistic positions, insisting on fighting losing wars to the
death.
5) I heard horror stories about lawyers not returning calls and not
filing pleadings in a timely manner.
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That's why accessibility and responsiveness are listed. More
complaints are lodged with state bars for not returning phone calls
than any other reason. Don't be shy--ask about how calls are handled.
6) I know all this is important, but I just don't feel comfortable
with the so-called "perfect" lawyer.
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You are the most important player in the legal drama--your lawyer
works for you in this team effort. Trust your gut. If it doesn't
feel right, it may be wrong.
7) Any final words of wisdom?
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Yes, avoid lawyers who themselves have gone through messy,
protracted divorces. They are certain to relive their nightmare
through you.
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