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Divorce should not be about "Winners" & "Losers" A divorce is by its very nature an unpleasant event. Unfortunately, the current process of courtroom divorce is one that creates further and unnecessary strain for all concerned. The backlog of court cases means that the process can be slow, frustrating and expensive for both sides. Our judicial system is an adversarial one. Divorcing spouses are seen as opponents in a contest. This rarely achieves a result that is satisfactory for both parties. There are "winners" and "losers." The mental wear and tear of a courtroom battle involve the public discussion of personal and private problems.  This often enlarges rather than resolves disagreements.  This mental strain is usually even greater when children are involved. BREAKING UP? Unlike the courts, we recognize your relationship. We also understand the separation issues. Come and work out: Property Division Debt Repayment Support Visitation AVOID HEAVY LEGAL FEES! A Final Note: It is important to understand that mediation is not the arena for the decision to separate or divorce. However, once the decision is reached, mediation can help the separating couple and their children avoid unnecessary scars and return much sooner to the business of living. Available for: General Business and Commercial Matters, Family Law Negotiations, Community Association/Homeowner Disputes, Real Estate Matters, Personal Injury Claims, and Employee/Employer Disputes Member of Family Mediators and SPIDR Website: www.afairway.com