How can it be possible that in a community state we are in here in California that my still legal spouse cashed out the entire CAL PERS account of $ 44,291.44 by signing I had no interest in the account? This action took place in January of 2007, prior to need for notary witnessed attest for this spouse issue on QDRO. I had an open DCSS case, no less, who were well aware that the idiot worked for schools and had this account. They missed the right to attach the funds and apparently Cal Pers required just his word about the existing spouse that was on the account upon initial onset of it. He signed and gave them a fraudulent statement regarding my having no interest in that account. There was a dissolution filed in 1998, which went only as far to finish up on the support and custody issues. The dissolution sat and still sits in limbo ( yet were covered by the basic restraining orders with papers served in family law cases with dissolution filing ) due being pro per case at that time and fact he could not agree, on anything reasonable. The court said oh well see ya later, go get an attorney come back then. The idiot was trying to get the kids furniture and obviously they needed beds to sleep in, as he had only weekend visitations at that time, so family law facilitator, working to devise settlement agreement, said I can’t deal with this non cooperative fool. I did try to write up settlement agreements over the years following the format fam law facilitator gave me to go by on our own, however each attempt was worthy of the same ono cooperation and foolishness and to no avail. Idiot this fool is and criminally minded too he was clever enough to get away with so far this scam and fraud committed with his perjury on the facts in the case enough to clear out the one and only hope I had to ever get back some of the many numerous other losses that he created in this marriage and tax debts he continually had used me to pay off each and every time they came after the man taking entire estate inheritance from Mothers death in 1991 a tax levy he was totally lied to my mother on her death bed even when signing a living trust asked him will the taxes be a problem if I leave it in her name ? He looked right in the eye and said oh no never let that happen now etc… And other debts with IRS that occurred even after that bomb landed in my face.
My question for you professionals out there . . . is what is the best way to go with this one? Naturally cal pers money is long gone, all gone and so that is not worth going after. He never has had anything really but a big drug addiction, lives with the parents, claims he is disabled not yet approved supposedly for any benefits yet, they are aware the real issue is drugs I am sure. Parents are approaching their 90's they have a nice home and life insurance, most likely as his father was in the business of insurance policies sales. And he is only surviving heir. Next in line under him are my 2 now grown kids and two other grandchildren. I give him 5 years max before he has nothing left house and all, and hate to see these ignorant in denial hard working people that are the parents of this fool, have all they worked for go up in smoke like that but is definitely the way it is and would never try to do anything different at this point he would rather over dose I think his drug is his best love as it was then more so now. I would love to see him get criminal charges for the Cal Pers thing at least if he went and sat it out for awhile in jail he may be able to dry out long enough to get help for the adiction issue and kids et to know this man they have not had around since he took drugs over the life he could have with them. However do not how charges could be addressed or to get a suit into court for the money lost in joint funds taken because it is technically the parnts and inheritance money that would be worth going after! I could use sound advice from someone experienced in messes of the same! If there is anything as nasty as this mess???? HELP PLEASE ANYBODY GOT A CLUE???
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