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So my boyfriend has this baby on the way with this girl who likes to play games when it comes to the baby. One week she will say it is his baby and the next week she is saying that it isnt his. She wont tell him the due date, and she says she isnt going to go to an OB even though she is pregnant. She is smoking weed and cigarettes. She told a group of people that she had gotten an abortion and then when he asked she said no she was still pregnant. Is there anything he can do? Like is there something he can have to courts be involved? or must he wait till the baby is born? She is about 3 months along (that is about how far along we got since she told us she was pregnant at the end of august) So is there anything he can do? He is tired of the games. He wants to know whats going on.

Let him learn a lesson to play with fire. As for you, why would you even hook up and seek advice to help him? Duh, he just got someone pregnant. Stay away.

Kelsey, you should drop that guy and finish school.

I'm with them. Dump his sorry butt.

Kelsey - really????!!!!

Typically people (esp. your age) hang around others much like themselves. The picture you are painting of the girl he may or may not have knocked up pretty much tells us HE IS A LOSER!!!!

DUMP HIM NOW, or find yourself on this board for the next 18+ years after he's dumped you after knocking you up

Yeah, you don't want to end up here. :P

Can't help it. In a way, we're all losers I guess :)) (we wouldn't be up here if we got sucessful marriage!)

RD & DVD: Well, we certainly aren't losers But it sure isn't the easiest road to travel as divorced parents

I agree, Tali. I personally think many ppl look at 'love' and 'marriage' as a fantasy that simply does not exist. The only fairy tale lovey dovey that exists within marriage are what YOU make it.

I also hope she takes our words to heart.