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#226121 - 10/03/09 05:34 AM Re: Background checks on a new significant other? [Re: JDunn]
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Originally Posted By: JDunn
Okay lets not start the tat for tat...
Please keep it the forum
Judy

Oh, please don't worry Judy, EmilyRae was just joking and ribbing me for correcting her grammar in another forum. I even jokingly said at the time that I shouldn't have, for I would be the biggest hypocrite if I went around correcting grammar all the time.

And my improper use of a possessive in place of an adjective post - is exactly why! grin

Say, are you our new moderator for this forum? I missed the post where you introduced yourself! I thought Evan Marc Katz was the moderator? Are there two now or did something change? I guess I just don't know the inner workings of Dnet.



Edited by Tali_Llama (10/03/09 05:40 AM)
Edit Reason: Meeting of the Mods
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#226122 - 10/03/09 05:39 AM Re: Background checks on a new significant other? [Re: Bethy00]
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Bethy.. in all fairness, if you had known he had a FICO score of 514, given all the other circumstances surrounding your plans to marry him, would you have stopped and not gone forward with the marriage?

Maybe you would have, or maybe, like so many of us, you would've convinced yourself that your marriage would help push his score up - help him rebuild his credit. We do funny things when we're "in love"..
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#226124 - 10/03/09 07:26 AM Re: Background checks on a new significant other? [Re: Tali_Llama]
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Originally Posted By: Tali_Llama
We do funny things when we're "in love"..


Is it funny things....or foolish things!

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#226128 - 10/03/09 07:39 AM Re: Background checks on a new significant other? [Re: Tali_Llama]
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Originally Posted By: Tali_Llama
Originally Posted By: JDunn
Okay lets not start the tat for tat...
Please keep it the forum
Judy

Oh, please don't worry Judy, EmilyRae was just joking and ribbing me for correcting her grammar in another forum. I even jokingly said at the time that I shouldn't have, for I would be the biggest hypocrite if I went around correcting grammar all the time.

And my improper use of a possessive in place of an adjective post - is exactly why! grin

Say, are you our new moderator for this forum? I missed the post where you introduced yourself! I thought Evan Marc Katz was the moderator? Are there two now or did something change? I guess I just don't know the inner workings of Dnet.



I actually think she was trying to get DVD and I to stop arguing.... or both. smile Glad you caught the humor in my joke though Tali!

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#226132 - 10/03/09 08:30 AM Re: Background checks on a new significant other? [Re: Tali_Llama]
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Originally Posted By: Tali_Llama
Originally Posted By: emilyrae
Originally Posted By: Tali_Llama

I can remember my ex's wife's social security number, as well as the credit cards we had together.

I don't remember you EVER mentioning your ex had a wife. wink Maybe I need to work on my memory.


Arrrrgh - touche! You got me. Don't you love teaching a llama a little humility? Sigh.. I guess I may be a little more human than I like to admit.

Now like Bart Simpson, I have to write 100 times:

"I meant my ex-wife's social security number, not my ex's wife!"
"I meant my ex-wife's social security number, not my ex's wife!"
"I meant my ex-wife's social security number, not my ex's wife!"
"I meant my ex-wife's social security number, not my ex's wife!"
"I meant my ex-wife's social security number, not my ex's wife!"
"I meant my ex-wife's social security number, not my ex's wife!"
"I meant my ex-wife's social security number, not my ex's wife!"
"I meant my ex-wife's social security number, not my ex's wife!"
"I meant my ex-wife's social security number, not my ex's wife!"
"I meant my ex-wife's social security number, not my ex's wife!"

(It's really cheating when we have cut and paste, isn't it?)


This made my morning, thanks. laugh


Edited by emilyrae (10/03/09 08:30 AM)

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#226163 - 10/04/09 03:54 PM Re: Background checks on a new significant other? [Re: Tali_Llama]
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Okay Tali Llama I know your sense of humor by now.
I have been on these boards as a moderator since April. There are two of us now. You will see me on usually during the daytime..

Oh by the way I was trying to keep dvd and emilyrae away from each other..

Have a good night...

Judy

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#226191 - 10/05/09 11:04 AM Re: Background checks on a new significant other? [Re: Tali_Llama]
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It wasn't the actual FICO score I had a problem with...I didn't know that until a year after we were married. However, had I seen his "experian" (or other) report, I would have seen all the liens/judgements against him before we were married. I would NOT have put my name on a joint account, I would NOT have given him my last penny from my account nor taken out a loan to save his TLC (still inhabitable) in-foreclosure home. I had 2 kids in college and he kept promising me he'd pay me back in a few weeks....2 years later....



Edited by Bethy00 (10/05/09 11:47 AM)
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#226364 - 10/08/09 03:07 PM Re: Background checks on a new significant other? [Re: Bethy00]
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Just a warning - if people are going to do on-line dating, please, please, please check out the person as thoroughly as you can. My ex was on several sites. Now, he owes a ton of money to a lot of people. His license has been suspended (though he still drives). He doesn't have his own car (has a car he's borrowed from a friend). He is abusive and has had multiple woman get restraining orders on him (has an active one where there is a warrant out for his arrest for violating it).

Yet he comes off as a real charmer. He is a pathological liar and a con artist and is very good at it. It's only when he has emptied a woman's life savings and moves on to the next one do they realize they've been scammed.

A close friend of mine who is single said she will never, ever try on-line dating - just for the fact that my ex is on these sites - so if there's 1 like him, then there's probably more.

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