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(I posted this on the considering divorce forum but since I come from pa thought I'd post here as well.)I have suspected that my signifigant other has been having an affair with someone. Tonight I found the digital camera hidden away and I thought it odd. Suffice it to say I was astounded to find sex images of him and another woman having oral sex and regular intercourse. I have asked him repeatedly and he has told me that there is no one that it's all in my head. He spends zero time with his kids in three months they haven't seen him for more than 10 min each weekend. He's always telling me I'm working I guess he is just not at his job. Sorry I just had to vent. What does anyone think about this not really looking for anything specific just opinions. I'm extemely angry and trying very hard not to show it to my kids they mean the world to me.

Wow, amazing how he denies there is no one, when a picture says a thousand words. I hope you had the foresight to print those pictures or to conceal the camera. I'd file for that divorce in a heartbeat.

As for the kids, continue to do your best to keep them out of earshot. This is something they never need to see or hear. I don't know how old they are, but I would be devastated if it had been them that discovered the camera.

I took both the laptop and the digital camera and locked them up away from the home. I have no intention of showing the kids they are 6 and 9 and 18 the 18 year old knows something is up just not what. I guess I'm just flabbergasted by his lying and then bringing them into our marital home.

"I took both the laptop and the digital camera and locked them up away from the home."
No. Get what you need off of them and then put them back. You don't yet want him to know that you know, and if he discovers them missing, he'll know. This is espionage. Once your source is given away, the game is up. You get no more information, and you may give the other party reason to act against you.