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Okay, you're a year and a half in. Discovery should have been months ago. Was there any discovery? If so, what documents were requested? What documents were returned?

i dont know....um... he was sent an "anonamous" mail...telling him of the case about her other daughter...she has "offered" redicuous... like i pay back TANF....and take what i have and call it quits...at mediation i asked for..my things...tools, moter cycle, ham radio, ham radeo tower...etc...pictures, things that are mine....offered the 3 items, and i to call it quits, excuse me but i am 40 yrs old, have been married 3 times (her being the 3rd) and i worked at a steady job and she didnt....and i have to prove i own those things, which are no good now cause she sold them, everything i asked for, she has destroyed or sold.....now...i want my child, and i will fight...another reason, i didnt try to take my child is she said " sSHE WOULD KILL HERSELF IF I DID"....HOW COULD I BARE THAT BURDON? she is pshyco.....im tellin ya, and i cant get anything from my lawyer....

I get that you're frustrated, and with good reason. However, at the moment, you need to focus on WINNING. What does it take to WIN? If your attorney is that unresponsive, consider getting another one.

I AM frustrated...im sry...i have used all my savings on this attny....im stuck....i feel like i am doing my own work and he is doing the filing...

"i feel like i am doing my own work and he is doing the filing"
To me, that's as it should be, more or less. It's YOUR case, not his. He is merely an advisor. Having said that, doing your own legwork should greatly reduce the amount you spend on him. In my divorce, my ex spent about $35k on attorneys while I spent about $10k, and that was in large part because I handled as much as I was able.

Have you tried planting yourself in his office first thing in the morning and not leaving until he sees you?

OH, ok...i see your point on that....i guess "planting" myself would be my next move...lol, again than you for your help...it is storming bad here, so i need to get off her....lol thank you

If you can change attorneys I'd strongly recommend it. My attorney laid out all possible strategies not to long after our initial consultation. Every time my attorney has had to bring in an outside expert to do some work (property expert for the area where out marital home was, another attorney well versed in title law, etc) he consulted with me and explained several things: pros and cons of hiring/not hiring, why he felt it a necessity, and then allowed me to question the suggestion. My attorney also is very prompt to respond to emails and phone messages and if he can't he has an associate in the firm that is familiar with my case respond. I'm paying him a lot of money and he knows that I expect that he be proactive in my case and communicate with me.