Hi Folks, it's been a while since I have posted. My post started in other areas, for those of you who want to read my history. So my divorce was final 12/06/06. I have tried to move on with my life, but have found it difficult due to the financial mess that was created by my ex husband and his abandonment. I have since tried to forgive him and the military personnel that hinder my ability to be able to get him discharge for his financial irresponsibility. Or because of policies and guidelines in place by JAG and the solider Act, refute any part of this soldier for giving me restitution based on the facts of this case, and since the judge screw me in the divorce and I don't have the money to take him back to court I was left holding and empty bag, with a broken heart literally, no medical coverage, a 13 year career gone, unable to work due to illness, and just a hell of alot of heartache along the way. Why did I do this? Not to end his career, although that might have happened if he would have gotten discharge, he was so early in the game what did it matter, and he was an immigrant after all, I did this though to try teach him that in life there are consequences for your action. To no avail. It never happened. Recently I ask for the case to be opened on new grounds with more information concerning our finances during our marriage, which I was told I could do so if I have something different to send. However, after have a very lengthy discussion with the colonel in charge I have walked away once again feeling that my case, and other abandoned wifes, children and or men, by their spouses in the military will forever go un challenged by a system set in place years ago. I have answered questions from various others with similiar stories, and have gotten emails from others who have either seen or heard my story via some other website, I feel it is my duty to help people like me who were in my opinion victimized not only by their spouses, but the systems in place that protect the soliders and not the spouse, and the justice system that continues to advocate such moral decades of character with "No fault" divorces in almost every state. Read my history folks, and my question to you is this.. Is is possible for me to direct change for those before and after me that continue to get victimized not only by their spouses, but the justice system and the military government of body? Should I let this go knowing we are in a time of war, but knowing this was and is just completely unjust and not right that society said it's not okay for a spouse to abandon his duties in the military but it's okay for him to abandon his or her spouse and or children? I will be back on line sometime tomorrow to see your responses. Thanks [b]LRBLESSED sick and tired of knowing I may leave this world not seeing any justice in my situation that literally went all the way to the white house. [/b]