I was divorced last year at a time when my ex was a part time worker/part time stay at home dad. Since our incomes were so disparate (I make good money salary + commission) and he had no plans to get a full time job, he was awarded half of all of our assets, plus a hefty monthly alimony payment which equates to half of my take home pay during months when I don't make commission goals. I have custody of our kids and he pays the minimum the state allows since he took care of them while I worked. Right after the divorce was final, he got a full time job, which put the kids in daycare (we split the cost). Now, he works full time, picks up the kids after school and has them for an hour before I get them, and has them overnight every other weekend. My job changed a bit this year and I am struggling to meet commission goals, which doesn't leave me with enough money to pay my mortgage, let alone everything else I need. I have 6 more months of alimony that I need to pay him, and I'm wondering if I should consider going back to court to have it either reduced or ended, or to have child support increased since he is now working. We are getting along okay and the kids are seemingly very well adjusted to the situation. I hate to disturb all of that, but from a financial standpoint this seems very unfair. Any advice out there?