General info: Married at 16 in Norfolk, Va to a sailor. He became more and more abusive until I told him I wanted a divorce, (18 then). He beat me up, the cops were called and they made him leave. The following morning I go to get a PO, and he's already there getting one on me for a small scratch where I defended myself. The courts said b/c they already granted him one, I couldn't get one. Upon returning to our apartment, I found the PO taped to the door. It stated that I was not allowed withing so many feet, I couldn't return to the apartment, and I was to make arrangements to give our daughter to him. So I did, not wanting to get arrested.
Well, he flew to Idaho and filed for divorce. By the time he got back I was such a mess, I had no home (he had the locks changed and notified the landlord of PO), no food, no money, etc... (I also only had a 9th grade education level.) I was basically living off a few friends he had not turned against me. So when he returned w/ papers, I just signed them. I felt lost and defeated. Shortly after he disapeared.
He filed CS once since then, but then disapeared again. I finally tracked him down in Arizona. I want to overturn the divorce and the CS. I feel that the court did not have jurisdiction over our child's custody.
Anyone have any opinions or advice? Is there a statute of limitation to have divorce overturned?