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Trying to make this long story short... It started off three years ago when i first came across this guy, and someone who i fell in love with.. At the time i was so in love i did practically anything he wanted me to.. i got cheated on, lied to, everything, you name it.. He has a six year old daughter and i recently found out that he is still married to his baby's mother. For three years now, i found out lies after lies, i mean i should practice what i preach but its really hard. Tomorrow he is supposed to get the divorce papers for me but obviously he didnt care before so i have a doubt in mind that he aint gonna get it. Until this day he says he loves me and all that but what i really want to know is how do i find out if hes still married to her, she lives in puerto rico, not to mention, he is in the army so he says that they are seperated.. This may be very confusing, but what about his daughter? if i end up with him in the future, how would our relationship be then? wouldnt there be strain? please help, i just want to move on with my life, and this guy is just too hard to forget.... PLEASE [color:pink] [/color] [color:blue] [/color]

>>>Trying to make this long story short... It started off three years ago when i first came across this guy, and someone who i fell in love with.. At the time i was so in love i did practically anything he wanted me to.. i got cheated on, lied to, everything, you name it.. <<<

You are not in love with this man. You are in lust, infatuated, and in a fantasy world. How could you POSSIBLY love anyone who so obviously DOES NOT love you? He lies and he cheats, that is loving behaviour? Explain it to me please.

>>>He has a six year old daughter and i recently found out that he is still married to his baby's mother.<<<

So we can add lying and adultery to his list of admirable qualities. Is this the kind of man YOU want to be the FATHER of your children? One that has abandoned his firstborn?

>>>Tomorrow he is supposed to get the divorce papers for me but obviously he didnt care before so i have a doubt in mind that he aint gonna get it.<<<

So what if he does or doesn't? You would want to be with a man of such dubious charecter?

>>>Until this day he says he loves me and all that but what i really want to know is how do i find out if hes still married to her, she lives in puerto rico, not to mention, he is in the army so he says that they are seperated..<<<

Again, I ask, Why would you want to be with a liar? Cheat? Adulterer? Absent Parent/Sperm Donor? Saying he loves you is easy, SHOWING it is a bit more difficult. And just how has he shown you just how much he loves you? By lying to you? Cheating on you? Having sex with other women? Why aren't you good enough? or enough? He shows you how much you mean to him and how precious and special you are by how again? Hiding the fact that he has a wife and a child? Exposing you to disease by cheating on you and not being monogamous!? Yeah, he's a great guy all right!!!!

>>>This may be very confusing, but what about his daughter? if i end up with him in the future, how would our relationship be then? wouldnt there be strain? please help, i just want to move on with my life, and this guy is just too hard to forget.... PLEASE<<<

Nice that you are concerned about his kid...too bad he isn't. Honey, he ain't the only man on earth, I'm sure he is just great in the sack, but babe, you can't stay in bed...you gotta get up and go out amongst the world. The man is bad news, dump him and get on with your life. Get yourself in therapy and answer the question "Why do you think so little of yourself that you'd settle for a liar and a cheat?!".

Sorry I am being so harsh, but you need a reality check REAL BAD!!!