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Just thought I would let you all know!!

I am finally divorced too!

After re-reading your first post and now seeing this one I'm very happy for you! Sometimes the system does work!

[quote]After re-reading your first post and now seeing this one I'm very happy for you! Sometimes the system does work! [/quote]

It has been a very long 2.5 years!!!

YAY!!!!!!!! Congrats kydad!!! I"m very happy to know that you got them all nice and safe! I bet she sure was ticked!

Let us know how the family is, glad to hear things went your way :)

Now, go have some champagne and celebrate your divorce and a new life :)

Things are good except for the harassing phone calls from my X and her BF. I will have that put to a stop tomorrow.

If she still doing that, go to the courthouse and file a restraining order against them, if they keep giving you harrassing phone calls, tell them they can go to jail then.

[quote]If she still doing that, go to the courthouse and file a restraining order against them, if they keep giving you harrassing phone calls, tell them they can go to jail then. [/quote]

I got more phone calls last night. I am gonna contact my attorney and see what I need to do today. I am sooo frackin tired of having to deal with her madness now her BF as well.

If they are also late at night, I'd pull the phone cord out of the wall, and just not put it back in till the morning, I'd be pretty sick of that also.

I have my ringer off on my home phone and my ringer off on my cell but he leaves voicemails...how stupid is that. The night before last he would call and not say nothing and I said "Listen stupid I have caller id" He would never talk when I answered the phone. He only talked when he got voicemail.

I wouldn't even listen to the voicemails, and just delete them without listening to them, if they ask if you got the message, you just say "yes, many, but nothing I wanted to listen too, so I delete them" :)

[quote]I wouldn't even listen to the voicemails, and just delete them without listening to them, if they ask if you got the message, you just say "yes, many, but nothing I wanted to listen too, so I delete them" :) [/quote]

No, I am saving them to cd so I can use it when she requests that supervised visitation be stopped. I do not want my children around her BF either.

That's a good idea also!

So, since she has supervised visitations, does she go there with her bf also? or does she have to leave him home?

I have no idea. I really don't care as long as they are supervised.

Visitation started today.

I hope all goes well and there is no conflict with the supervisor.

Me 2! let us know how it went later.. how long is the visit?

They went good even though she showed up two hours late. Said she had to wait on her BF, he had a job interview.

You say she has to be supervised. I am just wondering why she has supervised visitation. I don't know you whole story. I'm just wondering because I'm thinking about supervised visitation or something for my STBX.

feel lucky ky dad.. we have 2 pcs of property and it's just me and her and it's been almost 2 yrs. and now they're telling me it may be march. march will be two yrs.. she's claiming she's suicidal, depressed, etc., etc.. i keep paying temp maintenance fees and was paying the utility bills.. i found out my 1st lawyer and her had a case together yrs prior that i never knew about? we never went to court yet and his bill was $6800.. and when we finally got to mediation, he never did anything for my rights.. during mediation, she popped some pills and was out of it soo bad, the mediator and her atty wouldn't let her make a decition(thank god for me, i was getting ready to take it on the chin).. the mediator, and both atty's let her drive home in that condition.. i can't seem to get anywhere with this divorce?? i've offered her over 50%, but she won't take it.. just wants to keep it going as long as she's getting her ck every month!! any help from you or anyone would be greatful..