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Hi, let me ask you all a question and be honest with me, I've been married for almost 10 yrs and just recently I found from my wifes best friend that she has been messing around on me with a old boyfriend of hers. What should I do, financially we are hurting and emotionally we are always fighting.This can't be good on our kids, Please someone help me.

Why would this "best friend" of hers all of a sudden tell you this?

Are there signs that she been unfaithful? Have you confronted her about it? and no, fighting in front of the children is never good, they can feel the tension of when something is wrong between the parents. Have you both tried to talk about things?

Divorcing is also financial and emotional, especially with chidlren involved.

well I really think her best friend is more my friend then hers, I haven't confronted her about it yet, but this is not the first time she has cheated on me. She says she loves me but I really think she's here just because I pay all the bills,but she totally insists on doing all the financial stuff. What should I do?

Why would you even want to stay with someone you can't trust? I am someone who, if I found out my husband was even cheating on me, I couldn't keep the relationship going. You have to follow your heart and gut, do you really want to stay in a relationship you aren't happy in?

Have you even talked about separating? It's up to you and if you think this can still work, I know for myself, it wouldn't, as you can't raise kids unhappy either, they know what's going on, and you don't want them around that either.. do what's best for you and the children.